In my 20's I dated a gal who was a MASTER manipulator - I mean, looking back I'm impressed - sincerely - at her ability to think out social chess moves and execute them, while forming a narrative/perception of what happened.
She also went to a **very** feminist college - and I think it did serious damage to her - she was affirmed she never the bad person, only the victim. Her ability to rationalize double standards, I'm sure already prevalent in her psyche, but she had it formalized and backed up by policy and academic impetus.
In my 20's I dated a gal who was a MASTER manipulator - I mean, looking back I'm impressed - sincerely - at her ability to think out social chess moves and execute them, while forming a narrative/perception of what happened.
She also went to a **very** feminist college - and I think it did serious damage to her - she was affirmed she never the bad person, only the victim. Her ability to rationalize double standards, I'm sure already prevalent in her psyche, but she had it formalized and backed up by policy and academic impetus.
How would you suggest a counselor when my exwife is in the mental health field?